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“The Comfort Conundrum: Solved by The Adventure of Becoming”
Daily Prompt: Are you seeking security or adventure? I thought I was seeking security. Like any sensible person drowning in uncertainty, I chased the traditional markers: a home and money.As Gibran might say, I was building my house of tomorrow upon yesterday’s sorrow, except I was using bricks made of anxiety and mortar mixed with…
“The Mathematics of Belonging (and One Stubborn Dachshund)”
It was the summer of 1984, hot, rainy, and thick with the scent of possibility and wet socks. Recently, the opposite sex had discovered me as the season’s unlikely hit. From misfit to Miss Fabulous, a transformation so abrupt it could have been orchestrated by Kafka or a particularly Shakespearian guardian angel. I found myself…
A Toast for the Unapologetically Strong
“Owning My Choices: The Cost of Giving Roots—And the Art of Moving On” Today, my daughter is out on a boat, surrounded by friends who will never see the raw edges of her soul, captained by a father who has always been more concerned with appearances than connection. He’s the type who’ll invite me to…
“Royalty & Trumpeteers”
No Crowns, No Kings, Just New Disguises for the Old Game Dear Dante, You know how people born into royalty love to drone on about their “noble bloodlines” and “ancient heritage”? What a load of rubbish. Their ancestors were the biggest thugs in the neighbourhood—the ones who figured out that if you’re mean enough and…
“Saints & Syndicates”
Green Knights, Shady Cows, and the Comedy of Modern Virtue Dear Dante, It was something I read this morning that set this whole train of thought in motion. You’d appreciate this, I think: I was catching up on the news—no, not from a town crier or gossip in the piazza, but from that digital oracle…
“True Villainy: On Disgust, Betrayal & Display”
From parchment to pixel. Dear Dante, Forgive my prolonged silence—four years consumed by the theatre of survival, deadlines, and the daily farce we call progress. I return to you, not with a confession, but with a restless mind freshly agitated by an experience you would find both foreign and, I suspect, oddly familiar. Last night,…
“Magna Frisia and the Art of Familial Navigation”
Journey Through Myth, Memory, and Mild Misadventure This particular incursion unfolds years after my first, and this time, I arrive with my own expeditionary force: my youngest daughter and her father. The occasion? In her infinite wisdom (and with grades to match), she selected Leeuwarden as her academic hunting ground. Early acceptance, no less—her scholastic…
“Bat, Bi, Hiru, Lau Bost, Sei, Zazpi”
The Long Game of Witches (and Outsiders Like Me) Sometimes I wonder if I speak a language that no one else hears. I’ve sat at tables thick with history-Valencian, Frisian, Sicilian, Euskera-where words are more than communication; they are vessels of memory, dignity, and belonging. At first, I was the outsider, attuned to the music…
Feasts, Flags, and Fictions
“Rather Turkish Than Papist” Of Orange Crowds, Thanksgiving Birds, and the Art of National Mythmaking and bullshit artist. When I was a child, every April 30th, the Netherlands would dissolve into a sea of orange. Queen’s Koninginnedag was more than a holiday; it was a national permission slip for exuberance. Streets became rivers of laughter,…
The C.O.M.C. Files 